Jana,

So you have a “sort of” boyfriend. Oddly, I don’t seem to be very upset or hurt by that. First, this is a very unusual situation for me to be in, perhaps the first in my life, and, secondly, even though it’s been many years since my divorce, I don’t feel any strong urge to get serious about anyone again.

But he must be really a “sort of” boyfriend if he’s married to a Filipina girl and also fools around with the other girls at the club.

Thanks for inviting me up to your flat last night. It’s been a long time since a lady “invited me in.” It made me feel just sort of accepted I guess and I don’t often feel that way. Anyway, there are far too many people living there but I enjoyed watching you and Asel make mante. I’ve never seen that done before.

I’ll call you tomorrow.

Me